Many of you are asking why the Biggest Loser contestants didn’t like Mike.
Well, it seems that Mike had called Conda’s brother Tank. Now, just before being sent home, while still in the elimination room, Mike defended himself.
He said that he called him that out of affection like he would a brother.
Conda insisted he said it as an insult.
Now, knowing Conda better (like we do now) I wonder if the contestants might have a completely different perspective when it comes to who to side with and who to send home?
The very first week at the weigh-in Conda said and I quote “ My downfall on this team is Mike” then the person next to her said something I couldn’t make out and Conda clearly said “I don’t care. I can’t stand him”
This is the first week!?
Ok, so the second week when the red team was getting ready for the elimination Mike asked “Is there anyone here that you think hasn’t been doing a good job? That hasn’t pushed?”
I guess this was a case of don’t ask if you don’t want to know the answer because Mike noticed that Conda was grinning.
“Why you smiling Conda?”
Conda said “You know Mike, I think that it’s ironic that you ask that question. Last chance workout when the whole team is struggling, we’re all sweating, you’re not breaking a sweat”
“I don’t sweat like other people”
“Mike, you were going at a resistance of 3, slower than Nancy at a 6 on the ollipticals”
I pushed as hard as I possibly can”
“Ok”
Mike, “And my foot was hurt”
“I’m not going to argue with you. I don’t want to argue”
Conda doesn’t want to argue? But she is so good at it! JLOL
Mike said “There is a part of me that feels attacked by my team and a bit blindsided. I would think that it would be Kim going home. She’s the one that made such a huge bet and then she didn’t back it up. I can’t imagine them voting me off”
Famous last words, huh?
Who voted for Mike?
Kim, Roy, Conda, Nancy, Kimmy
Kim said that Mike wasn’t working out very hard and that halfway through the workout that Mike asked when they were going to stop and get something to eat.
Mike said it was because the nutritionist said that they should stop, have a snack and then continue on with the workout and have the energy to finish the workout.
Conda said that if you were in a 3-4 hour workout you should have a snack but that since they had just had breakfast and no one else was asking to take a break
Mike argued back and finished up with you can judge me however you want. I did my best and I tried the hardest I possibly could. This is the hardest I have ever worked in my life.You don’t even need to lift these tins. I already know I am going home”
Alison said “So, if you think that she is wrong about the commitment level then let’s talk about what you think caused her vote”
Mike- “Maybe it’s my personality. Maybe I’m abrasive. I said something at the first weigh-in in a loving way to her brother”
Cut to a video clip from the first weigh-in and Mike says “Go Tank!” as he is clapping while Jeremy is getting on the scale.
Conda swears and says about wanting to kill him and then THAT is when she said about
Mike being her downfall on the red team.
Mike- “I mentioned it in a loving, playground kind of way”
Conda “but you don’t have a relationship like that.
Mike- “I’m speaking so let me finish”
Conda-“You’ve been disrespectful since you met us so that’s lie. I am not going to sit here and let him lie”
“I’m not lying”
“Just like you weren’t chewing tobacco before the weigh-in yesterday” (Ummm, what does THAT have to do with anything?)
“I never hid the fact that I chewed tobacco. I never once hid that. I haven’t lied about anything so don’t start trying to make me look like I’m a liar because I’m not.” Mike points to Conda “She doesn’t like me first of all”
“I have good reason” Conda said
“Well that’s ok. You know I don’t exactly think that you’re the sweetheart of America either”
“That’s fine”
“But that’s irrelevant” Mike ended and then it went to commercial.
Alison said “We’re going to move on”
Roy voted for Mike saying that he had a chance to put his best foot forward and he didn’t.
Mike countered with that it comes down to like and dislike.
Roy said he didn’t know about the stuff going on with Mike and Jeremy.
Now at this point I would like to say that from what we have seen we don’t KNOW that there is an issue between Mike and Jeremy. Maybe Jeremy took Mike’s comment in the way that he meant it and thought no more of it. Maybe Conda is the only one who took it wrong?
I mean, seeing how she has been acting it seems like she has a bit of an attitude problem so I think that it is possible that she got upset over it but Jeremy might not have.
I know that when I heard Mike say that the first week I never thought anything of it. I figured it was a guy thing and he was just cheering on his teammate.
Back to the elimination:
Mike said “I have issues. I know that. I’m trying to be honest now the best I can. It’s not really relevant because I already have 2 votes and there’s probably one more right here” meaning Conda.
Alison said “Conda you don’t have to be his friend but is that an important thing to hear someone say when they admit their culpability?”
Conda “Uh, it’s important but the thing is that once you make mistake after mistake after mistake it’s not a mistake. Respect is something that is not given to you it is something that you earn. Mike has disrespected not only me but my brother and honestly I don’t know what kind of relationship he has with his brother but to disrespect Jeremy is to disrespect me. So, I’m not going to stand for it. It did start from day 1. Mike never apologized for that”
Mike- “I did too”
The arguing continued and Alison put a stop to it by moving on.
Mike voted for Conda
Conda voted for Mike and had a huge smirk on her face
Nancy voted for Mike but said “I’m so sorry”
Mike said “That’s ok”
Kimmy- I voted for this person due to performance
Alison-“Mike that’s 5 votes”
Mike- “Everyone here I truly care about, including Conda. I’m not angry at anyone.You guys don’t have to be upset that you sent me home because I learned a lot about other people and that I don’t have to live this way. I don’t have to treat people the way that I have in the past. Because I have hurt a lot of people and I didn’t mean to hurt anybody’s feelings. Because I did, I apologize.”
“You know I haven’t spent a lot of time with my brother and once the team split up and he clicked up with her brother and all the kids on that team we had no relationship anymore. I saw him at night when we went to sleep and that was it. And then everyone had their own little cliques and their own way and I was pretty much by myself and it was difficult because I have abandonment issues”
Roy said “You know we love you guy”
Conda said that when Mike said about Joe not spending any time with him that it was the first time that she felt any emotion from him and I feel like now I understand it. Joe started hanging out with Jeremy and you might not have had anything against Jeremy but you didn’t like that because like you said you had abandonment issues. I’m sorry that I found that out today. If I had known earlier it might not have had to end this way”
Buddy asked Mike to quit the nicotine
Alison said that everyone at the table had one thing they wanted to hear him say.
Mike said hesitantly and quietly “Ok”
Alison said “Come on man!”
Then Mike said with more conviction- “I quit. Not only will I look like Alec Baldwin at the finale but I will be nicotine free”
Everyone hugged.
Mike weighed 358 pounds. He left at 338 pounds after 2 weeks.
At the update Mike said that he had lost 56 pounds since leaving the ranch. He now weighed 302 and feels amazing. That he realized on the ranch that anger was the reason that he gained the weight, that he had turned into an unhappy person.
Mike looks so much happier than he did at the ranch or when he left the Biggest Loser.
He uses boxing to take out his aggression but he is still having trouble kicking the nicotine addiction.
Ok, so Mike had some issues but he admitted to them and has worked on them. He now seems like a really nice guy. He seems so much happier. It’s amazing the difference.
BUT, we see that Conda has some issues by the way that she has continued to act. She hasn’t made much of an effort to change her attitude so I don’t think that the issue with Mike was all his fault.
What do you think?
I worked to bring you pretty much word for word the conversation between Mike and Conda at the weigh-in so that you can determine what you think
As far as Conda goes? We will see if she makes any improvements or if she finally goes home.
What do you hope for?
